I recently wrote about goals, and of my lack of a bucket list. The real reason I would create such a list is to have goals to look forward to, and to create memories of rich experiences. It occurred to me that, while I haven't created such a list, I can look back at my life and see hundreds of experiences that would qualify as bucket list worthy.
As examples, I can imagine putting on my bucket list in my twenties that I'd like to swim in both the Atlantic and Pacific oceans. I hadn't had that opportunity yet even ten years ago, as I hadn't been in any ocean water in my life at that time, but now I have. I can imagine taking a tour through a cave being on my list, which I hadn't done yet seven years ago, but which I have done twice in that time. I can imagine experiencing kids camp with my kids being on such a list, and that is something that happened just this summer. I can imagine maintaining a target healthy weight on my bucket list as well, which is something I've only recently set about achieving.
Even if I don't ever create a bucket list with things that I want to do in the future, just consciously making choices to do things with family and to commit to self-improvement will guarantee bucket list-like experiences and achievements. Perhaps one of the best ways to be thankful is to look at the experiences in life that I've already had that could have filled a bucket list I may have had ten or fifteen years ago. I understand that not everyone has the same opportunities to have what appear on the outside to be rich experiences, but I suspect that most adults do have a large number of bucket list experiences and achievements of their own, even if their backgrounds or current situations are not as advantaged as others.
What are some of your bucket list experiences that you've already had or achievements you've already accomplished, even if you didn't put them on an actual list beforehand?
Sunday, September 09, 2018
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